How do we deal with extreme violence without using force in return? What is the most effective thing to do? How do we deal with the bully without becoming a thug in return? For many of us these questions run deep in our hearts, especially at these times, when injustice, aggression and recurrent cycles of violence may drive us to desperation. Scilla Elworthy has been moved by the power of her broken heart to explore the most effective responses to violence for over 50 years.. There are no easy answers, but in this call, you may well find pointers to support you in your next steps.